Jframe выходит на близкую Java
frame.setDefaultCloseOperation(WindowConstants.EXIT_ON_CLOSE);
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frame.setDefaultCloseOperation(WindowConstants.EXIT_ON_CLOSE);setVisible(false); //you can't see me!
dispose(); //Destroy the JFrame object
frame.setDefaultCloseOperation(JFrame.EXIT_ON_CLOSE);
frame.dispatchEvent(new WindowEvent(frame, WindowEvent.WINDOW_CLOSING));